Regrets of Life

Time is speeding up and so are our lives . We cling on to a vivid target , chase it and leave it mid way .Some stick to to their objectives stronger but fail to enjoy the journey . For that one goal we neglect a lot of splendorous moments and a lot of things that should be accomplished . Our delinquent heart does reprimand our stubborn mind occasionally like

"WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS ? DO WHAT YOU PLEASE . NOT WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN  ASKED TO DO. WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING ?"

An urge to leave behind the thoroughly engaged life and following  path of our dreams arouse.The dreams which we terminated Like a flower of fascinating beauty , sprung up in the garden of our heart, plucked and thrown away by our own hands.
The angel of death appears . A person's life revolve around him and fill him with regrets.Some of them might be

Losing a loved one 

We all usually have that one friend we share the hearts and brains with but as time passes , the wind of life takes turns and we become so self obsessed that we consider our friendship the hurdles to our objectives.Friendship is compromised and at later stages the ghost of regrets starts haunting our lives with painful and agonizing memories.We suffer for depicting our selfish nature. At the end of the run we wish that we had never let them go . We wish we had prioritized our friend above the austerity of the world.

Imbalance between work and family

The worth of something is better known when it's long gone . Our parents first priority is always our happiness The payback of their love is merely a match to what it deserves . But usually even this bit value is not taken care of until they are no more . Later we wish that we had spent more time with them and had been the reason for their smiles and not their tears .

Opposing the Oppressor

We never stand up against the oppressor just because it would cost us our job or something of more value and this regret is heart pounding . We wish we had been more courageous and had lessened the agony of others rather than just being a sightseer to the whole thing.

Trusting ourselves more

Most of the times our aptitude is restricted by our lack of confidence in ourselves . We doubt our dexterity and due to this reason our concealed capabilities never show up . This often keeps pestering us for the rest of our lives 

Be more confident 

People differ in their looks & in their nature . But most of us never find confidence of being proud of the disparity . We live in the shadows of others . If we had been more confident we might have been a completely newfangled persona

Dumping issues

Many times we cling on to mistakes of others more than we should . Later on we wish that if we had given him/her a second chance and if we had not been that judgmental , things could have been a lot better but often it's too late to realize. Don't try to change others rather be the change you would like to see.

Be more livelier

We often end up taking our lives way too much seriously . We wish that we had been more liveler and get along with people better . So find humor in life and be more happy . Be adventurous and embrace creativity.

Not taking care of our health

Our health remains our last priority but then a suffering comes in  At that moment we promise ourselves to be more vigilant in the future . Sometimes the suffering is irreversible . That becomes a huge regret in our lives 

Following dreams

Sometimes , we dump our dreams just to prove ourselves to be a better son , husband etc but following the dreams of others never catches interests for us which induces lack of effort which is followed by failure . At that time we regret that we had carved our own path of interests and had not paid any attention to the back seat drivers.

More contentment

Happiness comes with contentment . Thankfulness is a blessing but we are often so hasty to achieve more.It would be better to realize this sooner than later that somethings are meant to be changed and somethings are better to be left alone.

Wastage of time 

We have limited time so it's proper usage is very important. Spend time in being more productive. Set priorities to the stuff that needs to be done.Wastage of time and squandering opportunities eats us up eventually making our lives more regretful. 

                                

                     What's Done is Done 

Your regrets should not hinder you from moving forward . These regrets are mere lesson from which you have to learn and move on . If you sit back and feel guilty whole day then it will cause more wastage of time . Live in the now and try to make the best of it . Just like in a car , have a larger windshield to look forward whereas the smaller mirror is to look at what's past away  Bring yourself in a position to say
                               "I'm glad I did" instead of "I wish I had"